John,

I don't mean to be rude, but you appear to be a little desperate and to a lot of people, that is not an attractive feature. (KP or no KP)

well of course im desperate...im here i have this condition....should i pretend that my life is better than it is....like most people.[peaches and cream] well i guess i do, in the real world but this isnt the real world this is a forum were no one knows me. I can speak honestly, i can say things here that i cant say in the real world{edleast not easly} so i guess this post is more of a way for me to vent than it is for me to meet a girl.

the answer to my own question is no! there are not any single girls or women here. everyone has a signifigant other or they think there going to cure them selfs, well i hope we will all come across a cure soon...but what if we dont? then what...is there no plan B? single people if there are any?....I had planed on coming to this site to meet my plan B girl [or maybe she would actually turn out to be my planA]if you believe in fate] But there are no women out there intrested in talking to me...{{{and no ones even seen my picture thats rejection from a hole nother level ha ha}}} not even on the computer, thats pritty sad...what if i was the perfect guy for you...what if ? no one responds to my post.........if i actually hit it off with a woman here and we talked for several years and neither one of us met anyone else i would move across the world for that person... if there was a chance for happieness.... so i guess there is not one single romantic dreamer out there...not even willing to talk to me online ....and im sucha nice guy o well.........and i bet not one person will respond to this. .......................these are the thoughts of a drunk man

Hi!
I just read your posts and I felt that I just have to answer .
I almost start laughing at my self when I read that last post of yours where you wrote "...if i actually hit it off with a woman here and we talked for several years and neither one of us met anyone else i would move across the world for that person..."
The thing that made me smiling was that I am from Europe and I have same kind of thoughts that you do.
I have to confess that I havent never dated any boy partly because of this KP that I have and partly because I am kind of shy person. But the main thing that I wanted to say that you are not the only one

(Sry my if my english is bad..thats not my native language)

you may have a potential candidate

IMHO JohnE, this is, after all a place to find treatments for kps...so in other words, i think you have a very slim chance in finding interest candidates to be your gf here. it only makes common sense that members here like to discuss about kps rather then dating lol. i think you'll have better luck if you get off your computer, go out there and do something you enjoy and when you least expected it and when you are not so eager to find a gf, someone will present themselve to you and that person could just be your future significant other. well, thats my 2 cents worth, so goodluck with everything.

and by the way, although i understand where your coming from; don't just limit yourself in finding a girl who also have kp (thats a very weird criteria). you already seem confident by saying you are somewhat attractive and wise beyond years (although i do question your age because of your spelling mistakes, but that could just be language barriers..who knows) anyways
(back to the topic)
why don't you use that advantage in real life to attract a girl?...kps or no kps. wish you luck in your search! so what are you waiting for...do something lmao.

hi noozle,
thanks for responding. I was starting to think that no one felt the same way.

hi amulet,
thanks for your input aswell. Yes this is primaraly a place to find treatment info but its not limited to that. look were we are at now, the general discusion room. this is a place to talk about topics other than treatment[ or am i completely wrong?]
i feel much better now that ive shared with everyone,
i cant say these things in the real world. so i bottle up my emotions.

"i think you'll have better luck if you get off your computer, go out there and do something you enjoy and when you least expected it and when you are not so eager to find a gf, someone will present themselve to you"

i do things i enjoy all the time, im not glued to this computer. Yah your absolutly rite someone will present them selfs to me and ill start to like them and when they discover the kp she'll never return my calls agian.
then what do i do after that happens 1000 times?start collecting cats haha i love how you said "present them selfs to me" im gigggling

"(although i do question your age because of your spelling mistakes, but that could just be language barriers..who knows)"

what spelling mistakes? i recent that. i took 4 years of of english 1.spelling mistakes. I think not! ha ha
i dont see that many mistakes,keep in mind im not using spell check and this is my ruff draft and i dont feel like capitalizing letters and i didnt have the good fortune to go to cambrige

thanks agian for your reply and edvice

Hi noozle,
I pm' ed you. what is your native tongue?

HI JohnE,

Well, since it came up -- no, General Discussion is not for conversation not related to KP. For everything else, beside KP, we have the Chit Chat forum. I'm going to see if I can transfer this thread over there. Don't worry, it will still be on the page. We are all behind your finding a friend, whether that person has KP or not!

I see you have already posted on Chit Chat, so you know where it is.

kebod

I dont see why there is'nt a romance forum. there are people here that have never had a significant other.
there are people here that are middle aged an have never had relations with another person because of kp.
why should people have to miss out on the greatest pleasures of being alive. If there was a forum[or thread]
deticated to lonley people with kp this problem would be eliminated. Am I wright?
If there was a tread deticated to this, people could put themselfs out there.We would all know who is avialable.We would know how old that person is.We would know everything about them and then we could simply pm them.

I mean honestly, could you ever feel comfortable being with someone who didnt have kp? I know i couldnt. It would always be in the back of my mind. Always!

At a bear minimum this would bring people hope.

Even if there was a miracle drug on the market that cured kp im possitive it wouldn't work for everyone.

so John, has someone not call you back or rejected you because you have kp? if so, let them be. you won't missed them if they are that shallow . i'm sure a large majority of girls are not like that at all. you just haven't found her yet thats all

i'm also insecure about my kps, but that doesn't deter me from getting to know people. there are worst things in a guy like violence, gambler etc that girls worry about and kps are the last thing in regards to guys in a girls mind. so in other words there are not many evidence in girls aren't into guys with kps.

well, goodluck with your search. you will find someone!

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i wish for...world peace...and kp begone for all =)
lets work together to get rid of those nasty kps

yes amulet, i have been rejected edleast once for having kp.

"you won't missed them if they are that shallow . i'm "

thats the thing amulet, its not shallow in any shape or form to be rejected because your different. Its the nature of the beast. Its the nature of man kind to do this, this is ingrained into all of us to reject those who are different. why would any one wont to breed with someone who has bad genetics?[thats what it all boils down to. when ever we look at a potentiol partner, we are truely looking for good jeans[ this translate into good complection, good scawl structure, good figure,domance[ women are attracted to a sucsesful man a man with money and power or to a lesser extent his ability to control other males[ the alfa male[ the bad A**]......im controled by these instincts 2 and so is everyone...people are not shallow for thinking there better more attractive than someone else. infact thats evolution . i try not to judge people either but in the back of my mind[ subconiously] i do....i cant fight it.....does this mean that i wouldnt be friends with someone different? No...i would be friends with anyone.......but if i didnt have kp...would i start a relationship with a girl who did? No would you.....now it would be a hole different thing if i married a woman with kp and we both had it at first
and i later got cured....i would still love her of course.
im just saying that it is perfectly normal to be rejected when were talking about relationships....why would a normal girl be attracted to me? she wouldnt because im not the norm.

""i'm also insecure about my kps, but that doesn't deter me from getting to know people. there are worst things in a guy like violence, gambler etc that girls worry about and kps are the last thing in regards to guys in a girls mind. ""

any girl any day of the week would take violent johnE with no kp over calm johnE with kp. and without a dought any girl would take gambler johnE{without kp} over balanced books johnE{with kp}...infact i bet they would burn balanced books johnE on a stake just to meet gambler JohnE without kp

"so in other words there are not many evidence in girls aren't into guys with kps."

the evidence is overwelming
i wish that i could live in your world for just one minute.

Lol come join me haha jks. perhaps im been too positive but thats how i perceive things. i guess i don't exactly understand what you are going through unless i've walked in your shoes

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Originally Posted by johnE any girl any day of the week would take violent johnE with no kp over calm johnE with kp. and without a dought any girl would take gambler johnE{without kp} over balanced books johnE{with kp}...infact i bet they would burn balanced books johnE on a stake just to meet gambler JohnE without kp

nah uh


For sure, I somewhat agree with the things you said about physical attractiveness, but what I’m trying to say is not everyone is the same. Just because one person rejects you (your kps) in the past, doesn’t mean that everyone else in the future will do the same~ you know what I mean? The rejection in your past is just one isolated incident. I know its hard to get past insecurities, but most of the times the insecurities (in this case, its your kps) is tricking you in seeing only the negative sides.
What I’m trying to say is..your insecurities about your kps is making you doubt someone’s love for you. You can’t satisfied everyone, so why bother~ just focus liking yourself and what makes you happy. You know, it is easy to give advice but a lot harder to take it. So I’m hoping my advice helps a little, but whatever you do is up to you =)
sorry if i've completely changed the topics

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i wish for...world peace...and kp begone for all =)
lets work together to get rid of those nasty kps

i love your possitive attitude amulet, is that really how life works? well maybe down under .
is this really the way your life works ? Do you just ware what ever clothing you wont? Do you just go out on dates all ...la ...de.....dah....I dont have a care in the world

the rejection in the past is just one insodent because i dont wont it to end up being 127 horrable experences, horrable rejections......... and those 127 girls dont wont me wasting there time either.....there would probablely be like: what was he thinking, im way to good to be dating some freak. why would he even think he was in my leege, god hes descusting.......i think ill call my ex boyfriend, hell come over and we'll have relations. tho i cant stand when he beats me, or gambles all my money away.....but edleast he's hot! yah hes a bad boy.
And then shell tell her boyfriend about how bad her date with me was......and then theyll both lauph at me whenever they see me walking by........then i would have to punch her ..then she would start to like me but i would be in jail .....im just joking but most of that would be true

It seems to me what you need is some extra self-confidenct boost. I have seen couples around comes in all shapes and size. I know there is people here who have kp conditions and still have partners. I myself suffere from very major kp on my arms and legs and some on my face but my partner doesn't have any kp but why are we together? I sometimes wishe myself to have no kp at all so we can be a perfect match, but that may never happen so I have to accept It and continue trying to find treatment. I am 29 and didn't find my soul mate until I was 26. So you are still very young age and It have opportunity many for you.Best wishes to you find a partner (:

yah some self confidence and a dollar will buy me a cheeseburger.
but thats about all self confidence is going to get me...haha
I dont walk around with my head...i have some degree of self confidence...im not afraid to talk to anyone....i have gone up to girls and talked to them since my kp took a turn for the worst...but its always going to endup being the same rejection when they find out.



********* kp**********
i was reading torquose's web site, and i must say she had amazing results .the pictures dont lie. she was using the AHA treatment[ that she came up with]
and her results are unbelievablely good. I wish everyone could see her web site.....but this forum blocks it everytime someone trys to post it. why is that?
i was able to contact torquose and she sent me a copy of the link.....this censorship is crazy!.....why can i not pm someone and give them this link....im shaking my head in discust. this seems like the best treatment idea ive seen. and i cant wait to try it.